Beyond Erections: Sexual pleasure and intimacy with erectile differences

Beyond Erections: A Positive, Practical Guide to Joyful, Shame-Free Intimacy

Embrace a new world of sexual possibilities.  Beyond Erections aka Soft Cock Sex offers a compassionate and practical approach to experiencing intimacy without the need for a hard erection. Written by Mish Middelmann, this refreshingly candid guide encourages penis owners to reconnect with their bodies and explore sexual pleasure through a lens of creativity, acceptance, and fun.

With a cornucopia of expanding sexual delights, described with the enthusiasm of an explorer and the tenderness of a lover, Mish walks you through inventive solo and partnered activities that go far beyond traditional ideas of sex. It’s not about “fixing” yourself—it’s about re-imagining intimacy, expanding sensuality, and finding joy with the body you have, right now.

What’s Inside:

• A buffet of detailed, illustrated guides to sexual activities that don’t require a hard erection
• Creative and practical tips for solo and partnered pleasures, designed to enhance connection and body awareness
• Compassionate, shame-free advice for those with soft penises and their partners—of any gender or sexual orientation
• Insightful guidance for anyone looking to expand their sexual experiences, whether you have erectile differences or not

This book is for people whose erections are unreliable or absent and for their partners, whether solo or in relationships. It’s also a treasure trove of ideas for anyone who’s simply looking to add more creativity to their intimate life.

Written from Experience:
Mish’s personal journey following prostate cancer surgery in 2020 shaped this book. Through conversations with over 200 penis owners and their partners, and with the active support of his wife, Mish offers practical and emotional insights into navigating sexual pleasure without the pressure of achieving a hard erection.

Endorsed by Health Professionals:
“Marvelous and long overdue! I am honored to endorse Soft Cock Sex. I think it should be required reading for everyone diagnosed with prostate cancer.”
— Dr. Lorraine Becker, MD, Family Doctor & Fellow of European Committee of Sexual Medicine